A short discussion on abuse

I always find it heartbreaking when I come across a news story about
child abuse. It is hard for me to reconcile the thought that a poor,
defenseless child has been taken advantage of – often by a caregiver, a
relative, or even their own parents.

On the other end of the age spectrum there is another form of abuse that
makes the news much less often, but occurs far too frequently. Elder
abuse is not often reported, perhaps for reasons that have more to do
with pride or shame than the personal risk it represents. However elder
abuse is a real issue that deserves our attention so that it can be
prevented and stopped.

Elder abuse, like child abuse, involves a stronger individual or group
taking advantage of a weaker individual or group. The abuse can be
physical, sexual, emotional, financial, or it may be in the form of
simple neglect. Regardless of the form it takes, elder abuse can be a
horrible situation to endure, and it can be life threatening if not
dealt with when it occurs.

The key to preventing elder abuse involves listening to those who may be
victimized, as well as their caregivers. They may have a story to tell,
if we have the patience to listen. We need to speak out, too. Elder
abuse is no different than any other type of abuse. It is not a shameful
burden for the victim to bear, it is a potentially criminal act that
needs to be stopped. So speak up, talk to your friends and neighbors.
Share your concerns with family members. There are many cases where
abuse can be prevented or stopped by simply acknowledging it and making
it clear that you will not stand for such a violation.

If abuse is suspected it is imperative that we intervene. You are not
alone in this. There is help available for the victims of abuse, and
that help has the backing of the legal system. None of us should have to
live in fear, regardless of whether we are preschoolers, or senior
citizens.